The Positive Side:

What a wonderful Sunday!

Despite the nice weather outside, I've been here at home- catching up on my blog reading and finance surfing. During my little over one month recommitment to not smoking and spending frivolously, i'd managed to save up exactly $773.68 in 6 envelopes for the month of August. My September envelopes are filling up slowly but surely. Judging from the entries in my finance log, the savings total a little over 1K in what I call 'free money'. It's quite an accomplishment- considering this is all money i'd be giving away in the guise of habit (smoking, overeating), finance charge (credit cards), regular prices (formerly known as the anti-coupon mommy), can dumping (although the 5 cents is money already paid, consumers throw cans away to eliminate bulk can recyclings) . It's funny because my neighbors look at me like i'm crazy when I lug my cans in to the nearby supermarket. I smile because it's doing these things (recycling cans, passing on cigarettes, etc.) that have given me back some of my cash. I'd spend over a thousand bucks a year just buying cigarettes alone- this is money I'd never see again (at least not in the form of cash, anyway). When I see a can, I think to myself "I just found five cents!" Truthfully, if you examine your own budgets, I am almost positive there is some money waiting to be freed up. Here's an example of what I do:

Common Electricity bill in my house: 147.00 After replacing bulbs : 121.00 (-26.00)
Cable (Modem & Cable TV) 150.00 After negotiating with rep : 110.00 (-40.00)
Phone: 60.00 After changing package 51.00 (-9.00)

Now it doesn't look like much when read initially.. but if you calculate the total, I am now saving 75.00 in bills. BILLS THAT I'D USUALLY PAY BLINDLY. So what does Barb do? She takes that 75 bucks, creates an envelope called bill savings and adds it to the monthly envelope.

At the end of the year, Barb has 900.00 that she shouldn't have. Hence the term, FREE MONEY lol. That's just one envelope though. I have 6-7 envelopes on average during the month.
So when I load all those cans in my car when I go grocery shopping, I smile because it's doing these little things that give me a chance to open a CD with free money?


THE NEGATIVE SIDE...
**updated Monday Sep 19**

Ironically, my husband has been charging up his brand new store charge card because he has a 6K credit line. The problem is... the APR is 19.99%, and I am almost positive we'll have a carryover balance in October! I've manipulated the budget to include my envelopes and a little bit of ING funding but there is absolutely NO cushion for credit cards. So far his total on the card is 980.00 and coupled along with the gas card charges, we're looking at credit card bills around 1100.00

So now the debate begins... do I tap my envelopes or do I make him sweat it out?

I've got a little while to think about it though... let's see what happens

Funny how life is! Today I started the day a little grumpy... payday was two days ago and we're back down to BROKE lol. Hubby and I went shopping at the commissary and found great wholesale bargains at the tent outside the store. I bought 5 packs of 15-Roll Bounty Paper Towels at 7.35 each (the very same bounty I bought at Costco earlier in the week for 14.99). We spent a whopping 160 bucks but all of it was 100% justifiable.

On the way home from this plastic shopping spree, I felt a little bummed because I wanted to have a girly beauty day (hair, nails, waxings etc) this payday. Hubby was all for having me splurge via the plastics but the frugal in me rebelled against the idea.

When I got home, I checked the mailbox and found a refund check from school. Apparently I'd made an overpayment last summer and got $187.75 back. MONEY BACK FROM SCHOOL? I ran over to the bank and cashed it right away.

And thus.. the day of beauty reigned!

Barb: Hair, Nails, Waxing
Hubby: Waxing (Eyebrows.. he looks so cute hubba hubba!)
Kitty: Hair
DD: Hair
Mom: 20.00 in cash since she didn't go with us for beauty day.

It was a beauty day for all of us.. and I still managed to save $57.75 of this unexpected money in a new envelope entitled Freaky School Payout Leftover heheh.

After perusing several financial blogs, I am kicking myself because I didn't maximize my frugality last month! Supermarkets and Drugstores are selling gift cards which if purchased with the Citi dividend card gives you 5% cashback... duhh!!! I bought 200 bucks worth of giftcards at the actual stores and well... it would have been nice to see some loot coming back to me.. even if its only 10 bucks. I've added this info on here for 'dividenders' who havent read the citi fine print regarding this way cool card:


CITI® DIVIDEND PLATINUM SELECT® CARD REWARD PROGRAM INFORMATION
Your Citi Dividend Card account ("Card Account") will receive a rebate based upon eligible transactions appearing on your current month’s billing statement. Such eligible transactions include purchases, cash advances and balance transfers, which will show cumulatively on your statement as “Dividend Dollars”, as long as your Card Account is open and current. (Rebates on cash advances and balance transfers may take up to three billing cycles before they appear on your billing statement.) However, if your Card Account is no longer current, you will not be able to earn or redeem Dividend Dollars. If your Card Account is closed, you will no longer be able to earn or redeem your Dividend Dollars and unless you reopen your Card Account within 90 days of closure, you will forfeit any accumulated Dividend Dollars.
You will earn 5% on purchases made at supermarkets, drugstores and gas stations and 1% on all other purchases. Supermarkets are defined as stand-alone merchants that primarily sell a complete line of food merchandise for home consumption. Drugstores are stand-alone merchants that primarily sell prescription and proprietary drugs and nonprescription (over-the-counter) medicines. Gas stations are merchants that primarily sell vehicle fuel for consumer use.
Purchases not eligible to receive the 5% rebate include, but are not limited to, purchases made at warehouse clubs, discount stores, department stores and convenience stores. In addition, online, catalog, mail order and telephone purchases are not eligible to receive a 5% rebate unless the merchants identify the transactions as being made at a supermarket, drugstore or gas station. We do not determine whether merchants correctly identify and bill transactions as being made at a supermarket, drug store or gas station. However, we do reserve the right to determine which purchases qualify for the 5% rebate.
You will earn 1% on cash advances and cash convenience check amounts billed at the standard cash advance rate. Cash advances and cash convenience checks billed at a promotional rate will not receive a rebate unless specified otherwise. You will receive five Dividend Dollars for each individual balance transfer transaction, including individual balance transfer transactions made with balance transfer checks of $1,500 and greater.
You may accumulate a maximum of 300 Dividend Dollars in any calendar year (eligible transactions appearing on your January ­ December billing statements). Dividend Dollars earned on purchases through the Citi Dividend Merchant Network are not subject to the $300 calendar year maximum accumulation.
Citi Dividend cardmembers must be registered for Account Online and must activate their Citi Dividend Merchant Network account to be eligible to earn Dividend Dollars on purchases made through the Citi Dividend Merchant Network.
As soon as you’ve earned 50 Dividend Dollars or more, call us at 1-866-676-4672 or visit www.citicards.com so that we may send you a check for the total accumulated Dividend Dollar amount shown on your monthly billing statement. We cannot issue you a check unless you contact us. Checks cannot be issued for amounts less than $50 unless you’ve already received checks totaling more than $250. Cardmembers must be registered for Account Online in order to request a check at www.citicards.com.
Returned purchases, disputed or unauthorized/fraudulent transactions, finance charges, and Card Account fees do not earn a rebate unless otherwise specified.
You are responsible for any taxes that may be due on checks we may send you for your Dividend Dollar balances. Dividend Dollars have no cash value until such time as you may request and receive a check for your accumulated Dividend Dollars and you shall have no property rights or other legal interest in Dividend Dollars. You may not assign, transfer or pledge your Dividend Dollars.
We may revise any of these Citi Dividend Card Terms and Conditions at any time with 30 days prior written notice.

Be back soon,
B

So here I am.. back at the greatest site on the planet. I haven't completely disappeared.. was just lurking around for a bit. My schedule is rather hectic: 5 college classes, 1 part time job, 2 delightful little girls, and of course " tryin' to make a dollar outta fifteen cents".

I did resume the nasty habit for a few months.. but I stopped again in late July. Come to think of it, I abandoned my envelope system and completely splurged for a few months.. but I resumed my quest in August.
I have managed again to save a total of 340.00 in my phillip morris donation box (I took an old recipe box I found in the basement and printed out some grotesque pictures of blackened lungs, the skull and crossbones symbol and the marlboro logo. I then pasted it on the box and each time I think about it, I put 7 bucks in there!)

Curiosity got the best of me so I calculated some peculiar totals:

July-September: 340.00
October: 112.00
November 112.00
December: 140.00

Potential Phillip Morris refund/ Savings for the year: 704.00!! (talk about transposition lol)

2006: $1456.00

Interesting... 28.00 X 52= 1456.00!!
(and yes.. I smoked 4 packs a week!)
It makes me sooo sick to think how much i've spent on those things.. but hindsight's a %*^$!



I stopped the newspaper service (the paper girl is just too disorderly!) so I decided to count those totals too (yes. I have too much spare time at school on occasion lol)
2005=$22.50
2006=$78.00

Hey.. it's not much but it's more than I have in my purse right now!!

Well.. i'm off to do my homework.. i'll report more tomorrow.

Wow.. it's been almost a month since i've updated my journal!!
I have been lurking on these boards .. catching good tips from time to time... now i'm back with a vengeance.
I've been a little loose with the finances since I re-vamped my daily schedule.
Instead of being on here at 0600, I now go to the gym everyday and hop on the cardio machines. Progress is slow but steady.
Financially, I've given in to my manicured nail habit but NOT the smoking yayyy. Since we've been spending alot, i've decided to curb the envelopes until 01 May.

I have kept up with the coupon cutting and bill reductions... hopefully i'll get back into frugal mode soon

A few days ago, I was going through my stack of books and found a journal I made last year. I usually start journals around new years promising to quit habits, manage money efficiently, lose weight, and work out at least three times a week. Judging from the condition of the dust accumulating tomes, you can see how far those ideals went lol.

Anyhow.. the new habits have stuck generously :

my "passing on cigarettes" two month celebration just passed (January 22)
my "passing up meat" date was February 9... two months is coming April 9

So what's next? I've tacked the finances and am happy with the progress. I've gone back to exercising and watching portions. Although I've gone vegetarian, I found it difficult to abandon refined sugars and garbage... which helped me pack on 19 lbs since Jan 17 (last physical). Funny how a woman can gain over 10 lbs. of weight and a man gains maybe 2-3 lbs eating the SAME THING!! But hey, no one's perfect right?

I have stuck to the budget by #1. not subscribing to a gym (we have access to a gym for hubby's PT training)
#2. using an online journal to keep my hands busy (so I don't bore you al LOLl)

Hopefully I'll have the same ease with this leg of my journey as I have with the smoking and eating meats... wish me luck!

I almost caved in and bought a pack of cigarettes yesterday. Funny though, I wasn't under stress or panicking (the usual culprits for a relapse)- I just asked the cashier for a pack of Marlboro Lights. As he was reaching up to grab a pack, I told him nevermind and he just looked at me kinda confused. When I walked out of the store I pondered my request for a few hours.. trying to pinpoint what triggered the question.

Even if I would have attempted to get the pack.. I didn't carry enough to buy it LOL. I left all my cash and cards at home (got WIC items for my daughter so it's still a no spend day yayyy) and walked to the store so I wouldn't overspend... go figure?

Anywhoo... I have re-vamped the April Budget and it pinches a little more as I am depositing extra money into the emergency fund cash account. Here are the estimates:

Emergency fund:100.00
Birthday/ Seasonal gift fund:100.00
Quarlerly expenses fund: 200.00
Leftover Total: 200.00

A bit depressing since last month I had over 1000.00 left over from the bills but I plain forgot to put these three funds into my equation. Of course, I have calculated my envelope money into the Bill Equation. It serves as the "pay yourself first" portion of bill payments.

Hubby is expected to arrive from his business trip- yayyy!
I've been bored all week without him. Last night I learned something new about the forums.. you can't post affiliate links in your signature- that's a big no no.

On the upside.. I managed to get a lil decrease on the water bill since there was an error in the numbers (good thing I check it OFTEN) and two bills were payable via the AMEX (which gives me a chance to scrape up some dough during the month).

I've got a couple of things on the auction sites that will bring in a couple of bucks by the beginning of April.. hopefully!

I'm compiling a list of items I need since I'll be visiting Trader Joe's either today or tomorrow. I love this store but they have none where I live.. is the mileage worth the trip? .. HECK YEAH!

I wouldn't be surprised if some of y'all heard my screaming a couple hours ago. I got hit with FOUR unexpected bills that I was SOOOO not prepared for

1. Traffic Ticket (I am so not happy at whoever thought up the idea of traffic cameras.. GRRRRR!!!!!!) 115.00
2. Registration of the Eyesore (2 year 60.00 + usage tax 30.50= 90.50). I barely move this car but we can't get rid of it... hubby settled on a four year lease and we aren't even HALFWAY done.
3. AT&T Cell phone bill: 44.00 (Totally forgot to pay it... and it showed on the bill ::gulp::
4. Water Bill INCREASE: 183.00 (My toilet was running excessively for 2 months and we just RECENTLY had it repaired. It was a 40.00 increase)

Altogether... $432.50 right before April... that wipes out the cushion, reserves, and savings account fund for March.. bleahhhhh.

I am finally done with these pesky midtems... free at last!!!!
Today I took a bit of a hit marketwise- seems like since i've opened up the IRA the fund I chose is a slow sinker
But hey.. at least I got my CD open

Today's Happenings:
I submitted an article in my school newspaper about my savings habits and have plugged this site as "the end all be all of all savings websites "

I spoke to a neighbor whose son goes to DDs school. My neighbor pays alot to keep the boy after school and i've offered her after school sitting until she gets home for half the cost... hopefully she'll agree as I can definitely use the extra $$$.

Today's Not so good happenings

Hubby informed me he might be PCSed elsewhere. I'm not really looking to hear that since I've lived in NY all my life and a move to some remote corner of the globe is NOT my cup o' tea... but hey... that's the joy of military life. I refuse to have a geographical bachelor roaming around... so I must go where he go-eth

Buttttt.... on a more positive note
Since hubby left on business I've declared this a no spend week- and I must say it's been going off without a hitch (though I may have to fill up car #2 if we choose to go to Fort Dix on Friday). I have the remainder of the shopping funds ready for a "meaty" purchase (for my carnivorous family members) lol.

Today I paid the last of the March bills in person and have a whopping 400 bucks left... wooohooo!
I have scoured the terrain in hopes of finding a good CD Rate and have found ZIp. ZIlch. DiddlY SQuat.
Bleahhhh.

I've sent out the latest batch of resumes since i'll be graduating in June and need to get my head straight.

Tomorrow marks exactly three months that I started taking back some cash from the usual sources. I've counted up the money i've accumulated and I am thoroughly surprised at just how much I used to spend on garbage. ... and to think.. I've still got 10 days left for this month... geez.

I've decided to take a portion and put it into a short term CD. Hopefully I'll find a good rate at the trusty ole' savings bank down the block

today I took my trusty ride over to Pep Boys and found out I hadn't changed the oil since JUNE of last year. WHOOPS! ::gulp:: must've slipped my mind!
After today I have 11 more days to fill up this month's envelopes and I must say I am QUITE surprised at the amount i'm accruing! Hubby has started his own envelopes but he's never really had the kind of habits I had so his won't bulk up as quickly as mine lol.

My envelope quantity has grown from three in January to ten in March. I still haven't decided what i'm going to do with the money since this is primarily "spent cash"- but I must admit, it does feel good having some Just in Case money around.

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A giant weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Last night, I handed in my first of three mid terms (woohoo). Today I have to grocery shop and prepare the mid term topics for a complete and utter cramming session in three days.

I received my Ebay bought coupons and plan on dispersing them at the commissary... hopefully i'll have more coupon money to add to Envelope #6 after today's bout

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After finding this website, I've become SSUPER FRUGAL when it comes down to budgeting and saving money (though I suspect i'm preaching to the choir on that note lol). Last night I had a discussion with a dear friend of mine and I may have made a believer out of him He's very young and careless with finance but it seems he may be turning around. He even pulled out an envelope system he started which he aptly named "The Snapple Envelope" ! (He's addicted to snapple.. spends like 2-3 bucks a day on it... well.. sorry Ms. Kaufman!)

Hey, a little change goes a long way, right?

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Today we had a most unusual surprise on campus. These "leprechauns" were hopping around, handing little green bags that contained a number and some candy (you guessed it.. GREEN candy LOL). The leprechaun lthat approached me ooked like he'd seen better rainbows (wasn't aware you could drink on campus LOL) but he handed me two bags. My friend declined the offer so I kept his. Anyyyway... the numbers were 430 and 431. I later found out these numbers were for a raffle for three prizes: #3 being 77 bucks , #2 being a gift certificate to tavern on the green and #1 777 bucks in cash. The event was sponsored by a few of the island's businesses..it's their way of giving back to the future businessmen and women woohoo... nice touch, really.


When they called out the numbers, I happened to glance over at the head leprechaun just as he called out 430!!!
So.. I won 77 bucks.. Yippeeee... and it was my own bag fair and square hahahah. I walked out happily counting my 77 bucks- a happy woman.
The green candy wasn't bad... gotta love sour apple yummmm!


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Ohh.. and I spent NO MONEY TODAY. (That is ALWAYS a good thing, n'est pas?)

Finally! The means to combat the growing bill pile that adorns my billbasket!!

Here are the mid month bill reports:

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Time Warner Cable: Budgeted 150.00 / last month 133.90 / current: 74.21!!
Action: Removed one cable box, called to threaten switching over to the Dish got me 6 months of discounts
Callback: June 16, 2005
Extra Cash: New Envelope: The Bill Shaving envelope (I drew a pic of a bill sawed in half lol on the front)


ConEdison: BillPlan 150.00. Actual charge average 155.00 (comp is on ALOT).. this month 125.77!!!
Action: Replaced 99% of all lightbulbs with energy savers, lights off at 9PM



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Gas Bill: BillPlan 145.00 Current Bill: 498.17 (Knocks the installment credit balance under by 124.56) I called and yelled and received this simple response that made sense:
"When gas goes up.. so do we, honey."
So much for being a grinch LOL)

After i'd carefully mapped out the bill plan of attack, I came to a rude awakening this morning as I opened my gas bill. Sure I know they hike up their prices in the winter since they know we'll be using more gas but dannng!!
I've been using every possible method of saving and my bill reached a record high in all my years as a keyspan customer.

My current charge is $498.17.
I am NOT happy. Today i'll be going there IN PERSON and will be demanding an explanation for this jump in cost. (almost 0.30 per therm)

But aside from that bill grumble... I did do a few things to save money

#1. I am switching over to Digital Phone (which will save me 34.27 in phone bill charges) They are coming to install it at the end of the month due to high demand in my area.

#2. I paid off a medium sized debt last pay period and am now adding the usual payment (50.00) to my envelopes marked as BBF (Budgeted Bill Fodder)

#3. I've started a carpooling system to my school which brings in an extra 20.00 a week for mileage I would use anyway lol... the people riding in my car are bus riders.. they are saving one dollar and I'm collecting the other buck instead Another pretty lil envelope filed in my box hehehe.

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And these are possible options I'm looking over in ways to make more money:

#1 Telemarketing? So the pay's not tremendous.... from what I understand, you can do it at home with certain jobs. Keen is just one of the websites that offers this opportunity: www.keen.com

#2 311 Call center: My school is offering 14 bucks an hour to answer calls in Manhattan... only problem is the commute (sometimes I wish I could just swim to Manhattan... i'd make it there alot faster than this awful ferry lol)

#3 Baking business: People at hubby's job are serious sugar addicts. I discussed putting up a table with some homemade cakes and cookies. Whatever I get from the sale.. i'd give half to spousal support and the other half... welll... I have to pay for gas somehow lol.

Since I've given up the traditional "working girl title" after having my first child, I've been looking for ways to come up with bucks without having to put her in daycares. i just don't trust them. Period. Much love to you ladies who leave your kids at sitters with utter confidence..... I just can't
There have been lots of little incidents that leave me in constant speculation.. but enough about my paranoia lol

I have taken two steps forward in the income chain:
1. Clicking & PTR- Since I spend lots of time on the computer both at school and home, I joined up on those clicking sites and have had no problems so far. I won't get rich but hey, it's an extra couple of bucks in paypal which collects 2.41% just sitting there ;-)

2. Papergirl! I get up exceptionally early. Early enough to beat hubby and the kids I put a call over to the local paper's circulation dept and scheduled an appointment to see if I can be a newspaper carrier
Again.. not money to get rich.. but hey, it's still time I have on hand to get some things done.. and why not get paid in the process!

Also... for those of you who think fast food is good for you... mannnnn.. I highly recommend watching "Super Size Me"- the Morgan Spurlock self-transforming docudrama. Check it out!


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If there's anything more tedious that sitting in front of a screen for hours and hours opening up emails and clicking for 1/4 of a penny... it's opening up emails and clicking for 1/8th of a penny|!!!!

I know.. I was shocked too.
So... that clicking venture is as of now OUT of the picture!

(I'll keep searchin though... and i'll write em all down here!)

Last night hubby took me to AC for a little slot action..
Since i've adopted the new methodology of spend as little as possible.. I walked in with $40 playing money (he gave me more but I left it home in one of my pretty lil envelopes

After six hours of walking around, watching him play his winnings away, I walked out with $244.00

There is no such thing as smart gambling... how else would casinos make money if we all gambled "intelligently"?
I simply whipped out my current assigned reading book after I initially hit for 800 quarters and read amidst the noises, cigarette smoke, and winning/ losing excitement! Hubby took me to a place renowned for its ribs & barbecue.. yeccck. I know hubby won't abandon meat so I don't even try to preach against it lol. I had the only two vegetarian items on the menu (onion loaf and a vegetable fajita). Ordinarily I would take a bite of hubbys steak but today I lovingly declined. I just don't "feel" like eating meat anymore... it's an odd feeling, really lol.


On the agenda today:
So today I plan on buying the baskets for the girls... since I didn't get a chance to do anything else yesterday.
I am armed with coupons and rarin' to go

After much deliberation, one of my professors decided it would be best to have a take home midterm. Sure it's great.. but what she's asking for is RIDICULOUS!

So there goes my saturday... no shopping, no spending money liberally (::siGH:: what a dilemma lol)

Actually I plan to go shopping a little after my first bout with the midterm. I'll be leaving cards home this time!
My goal is to make nice easter baskets for my little darlings (the same way I made the gift basket
I'll only take twenty bucks and see how far I can stretch him.. will keep ya posted on my progress


Barb

So I stuck to the plan yesterday and re-made the budget. I'd underestimated a few bills in the previous budget and it caused a bit of a disruption

As I finished my planning session, I visited the bloated old water gallon that holds the family change. We'd started the change jar last year (while in spendthrift mode) in hopes of saving enough to go to Disneyworld. A few years back, I'd set up a change jar and when it was full I counted over 2500.00- enough to take my mom on vacation all expenses paid

Hubby spends alot of money on coffee and assorted guilty pleasures.. this has curbed the impulse spending a little... I even let him count the change last year... it's already close to 1000 Only setback to change jars...
1. some banks charge a fee for rolled change
2. the weight of carting it into the bank for depositing
3. no interest while it's in the jar

But hey.. it sure beats paying taxes on money that's already yours

One thing I like about being the household accountant/financial planner/bill guru.... if i'm not happy with my budget, I can tear it right up and make another one!
(and that's exactly what i'm doing right now!)
So it's 5am and i'm just about the only human awake thinking about bills lol... could be worse right

Since saving TOO much money will wind up hurting my budget, I've decided to apply a percentage of leftover loot into the lowest balance (aka the snowball effect)


BEFORE: Savings account 340.00/mth
AFTER: SNOWBALL 200.00 / FUNDS 140.00

Here's the list:


Student Loan 1

(I have designated three days out of the seven to be "Spend Days"... Wed, Thur, and Sat.)


Today I've got to assemble a retirement basket for my husbands coworker. My objective is to spend less than twenty bucks... lets see if I can make my goal

I've added a few bills into my budget and taken away a few savings goals since it would severely cripple my chances of financial aid

I'll update the totals when I return...

AW

----- Update... 10AM------

WOW!! Instead of going to the usual lengths of buying something prepackaged and expensive.. we opted to go to a local 99 cent store... and I am happy to report that our lovely lil farewell basket complete with ribbon, plastic wrap, card and bag came out to......

9.00!!!

The objects in the basket are as follows:
Two novelty beer bottle candles (one like budweiser and the other like heineken)
A 5oz sterling silver liquor flask (reminds me of the Outsiders lol)
A 2005 must see movies calendar (so it's March... still got a few more months going
A bag of california pistachios
A bag of hershey miniature chocolates

For filling I used recycled filler from another project I made last year. I wrapped the basket tight and placed a pretty navy blue ribbon on top. We spruced up the basket and placed it in a matching blue bag... voila!

Not bad... considering we made it in less than 20 mins

Earlier today I was plagued with unanswered questions

I didn't ask:
Whether this was a load or no load fund (which I suspect out of both, it will be the one with the highest fees.. commissions first!)
A prospectus of this amazing moderate portfolio
The names of the fund managers (so I can check up on them using the trusty ol' comp)
Morningstar rating & symbol name (i'm supposed to get the info in the mail)

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I got a call from the broker and he gave me this info....

1. My bank doesn't do no loads.. they do back end loads which starts with 5% and after five years it goes down to 1%
2. I have a B class.. moderate. So I can find the prospectus by doing a search.
3. The rating on my fund is two stars but since i'll be in the fund for a while (at least 30 yrs)... it doesnt matter much?

All my completed forms are going to be sent in the mail so I can have a hard copy. Hopefully I've done the right thing...

Indeed.. a rhetorical question!
Wealth to me is what I have every time I look into my children's eyes and see the love and admiration they hold there.
Can it be defined by numerical denominations?
Doubtful.. as billionaires only attract "hidden family members" (think of the jeopardy gazillionaire uber-nerd!)


What is wealth to you?

Sooo I've been taking out scores of financial books from the tusty ol' library in hopes of becoming a guru... duh? After listening to the doomsday lecture of American Economy from a liberal professor yesterday, I shivered as I reviewed each page of notes while ingesting a cup of hot cocoa (with Soy milk yumm LOL)...

"There is a chance that out of all 43 of you", the teacher barked at us from his mighty pulpit... "only one of you MIGHT become wealthy."
"You are all just deluding yourselves."
We were even treated to a little autobiographical tidbit that kinda caught us off guard- (then again seniors are never caught off guard.. we just become pleasantly surprised.)
"I lived in a trailer (PC alternative: Mobile Home) in Florida with my parents and siblings", he added.
Judging from his state of dress... sure.. he's hip... he's cool... he's super Prof!!
"I got my PhD and am teaching here... rich? No way jose!!"
I think he expected us to nod our heads in acquiescence. We were all just numb from the financial accusations lol.

But back to my frugal anecdote du jour:
Hubby and I opened up two Roth IRAs yesterday. You'd think that will all my researching, I'd know what questions to ask... bleah!
So now I feel like I usually do when I walk out of the grocery store... you know...when you leave the store and just as you get home you suddenly remember WHAT you were going there to buy in the first place... and you've bought everything else in the store EXCEPT that object?!!
Ughhh..

I didn't ask:
Whether this was a load or no load fund (which I suspect out of both, it will be the one with the highest fees.. commissions first!)
A prospectus of this amazing moderate portfolio
The names of the fund managers (so I can check up on them using the trusty ol' comp)
Morningstar rating & symbol name (i'm supposed to get the info in the mail)

These questions clawed at my gut since I've opened my eyes this morning.. and I fully intend to barrage the broker come 0900 hours on the dot.
Wish me luck

-AW

Since we're a one income family with young children, we automatically qualify for the WIC program. It's a blessing since dairy farming has pushed higher prices for standard staples (milk, eggs and the liks). Wellllll.... since I've recently switched over to the greener side of the playing field (think leafy greens, beans, grains, and fruits lol), I've abandoned milk, eggs and have opted for soy & substitutes. My kids haven't adapted well to mommy's new "cooking style"- and well... i'm not too familiar with how to turn meat eaters to vegetarians lol. The WIC program won't allow vegetarian staples ..which disturbs me in a way. Here's why:


Vegetarian Argument: If you consume milk, you're supporting the veal industry. Cows are given hormones to produce more milk than their natural amounts.. and well.. once they can't do that... ::shudder::
If you're like me and wonder just how many chickens are out there producing the countless dozens of eggs lining the supermarket dairy section... check out peta's take on these working class citizens. I'll not trash the industry as i'm sure people make profits but I for one will not support it.

Frugal / Financial Argument: Here in NYC, a gallon of milk on average will cost $3.50. Eggs have gone up to 2.00+ and cheese... well, don't get me started on that LOL. In simplest layman terms, WIC saves the average family over 100 bucks a month in dairy items alone... you can't beat that, right?

But what about those poor overworked chickens?

And skinny bessie who makes milk that won't ever feed her happy calf (Recommended READ:Ted hughes' poem by the same name)??

LOL sorry.. had to vent.. perhaps i'll come up with a valid argument to sum it all up later on today

-AW

Today I sat through an hour long lecture that included a thorough anti-republican tongue lashing- a loving precursor to Caryl Churchill's "Top Girls". :Sigh: Whilst sitting in thise otherwise disturbing one sided discussion, I contemplated my finances (well .. I find myself doing that OFTEN lol) and have come to a few conclusions:

1. The more money I accumulate in ING, the farther i'll be from getting any decent type of financial aid (One income family notwithstanding)

2. Hiding this "saved cash" in my house will only bring more issues since someone here's got a sticky fingers
habit (gotta love greed!)

3. I have no love for Safe Deposit Boxes since it's still a service you pay for... regardless of whatever is in it...

I recall reading somewhere that only the lower middle class and below fuss over money OFTEN... somehow I don't picture Ebinezer Scrooge letting his mortgage and cell phone bill pile up then pay it all ONE time a month? (Wow I'm really reaching on the creative writing chain, aren't i?) Perhaps if I just let the chips fall where they may.. I'll wind up perilously close to bankruptcy with double digit credit card balances and no significant income to pay it down. I'm curious as to how others feel about this generalization?
Do YOU feel you over-emphasize financial matters whether its through debt or savings?

On a much happier note, I have made the switch over to vegetarianism....now to get my family over to the same side lol!

The Contemplation:

Ahhhh Lovely Sunday... the day in which we all rest (and worry about the upcoming six days LOL)
Hubby and I have made a habit of buying the sunday paper (I clip the coupons and hubby reads up on his sports stuff) right before the kids begin their usual sunday frolickings.

Anywhooo... today I watched as an older chinese lady pushed a cart overflowing with cans. I used to feel bad for them- all withered YET determined... now I see why I shouldn't!
This particular elder chinese lady's daughter goes to my college. She joins her mom in can collecting sprees over by areas where she won't be recognized. Her mom is a "homemaker" by profession. They are a one income family as far as taxes are concerned... yet they've got more money than most. Here's why:

Her mom stopped working like 15 years ago. She wasn't fluent in English so finding work was going to be a toughie. After much deliberation, can lady bought a shopping cart and a box of clear lawn bags. She's been picking up cans ever since. Sure she can't cash them in all at once and there are precautions she must take when handling them... can lady doesn't NEED to work now(Yes she's made a full time job of it).

The Rationalization:

She picks up cans for 6-8 hours a day, 7 days a week... in many different neighborhoods & vicinities.
Summers are especially profitable. Beaches and parks are ripe for the picking. She usually deploys her kids & grandkids to pick em up with her.
The can lady collects an average of 14000 cans a week. 14000 X $0.05= $700.00. Thats over 33K CASH in a
year!
Who'd have thought?
Best of all this money isn't taxable. It's money others have happily paid when buying soda and beer...


The Summary:

While I can't see myself picking up cans or rummaging through my neighbors' trash- I have now placed a "can bag" in my car- if I happen to see soda cans in the street... i'll lovingly get a nickel for it

Ahhh what a beautiful Saturday morning! The clouds are nestling softly against the clammy horizon as winter sneaks a few colors into the scenery... eek!!!
It's only 7am!!
Who forgot to shut off the alarm clock!!!
Actually, today I'm going with DD to "The city"- a term we Staten Islanders use to refer to Manahttan. We are the only borough in New York that has to either drive, Bus it or take a 30 minute ferry ride packed with tourists, smelly islanders or worse... crumpled up old men toting polish kits eager to make a fast buck (by ruining expensive shoes into a "shine state").

Our destination? The Museum & Hayden Planetarium
Price? I'm going to splurge.. it's time to get "culturized" lol.

Hopefully I won't spend much today.. i'll check back in later.